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Tuesday, October 12, 2010

How to tell if the guy really loves you :)

Here you can watch out some really serious things that can really let you know if the guy you love really loves you or not and it goes this way:

1. First and foremost, you must acknowledge this fact right here itself that if the guy whom you have fallen for really has feelings for you then those feelings of true love are sure to be reflected in his actions, behavior and expressions. If you find these things coming your way then it is fine but, if you always see yourself looking out for these feelings to be exhibited in his behavior but they do not then it is a clear signal that he is not serious about you. Also when you have realized it then you should not deceive yourself into thinking that you should wait more to see them reflected in his behavior.

2. Watch out closely if he reacts indifferently to whatever you say or do; this is very important and would exactly tell you if his feelings are genuine or not. Check out in times when you have entrapped yourself in trouble that he comes to help you out of the blue even if it is the tiniest of problems so as to prove himself as the right person for you as well as to show that he is always there for you.

3. Also watch out whether he is comfortable making you meet his friends and family, if he always gives some or the other lame excuses for not being able to have you meet with his close ones then you can possibly figure out that he is just not that interested.

4. To really know if your guy is really into you; check out his body language, his actions, his touch and the way he looks at you. Watching all these gestures closely would give you a clear picture as to what he is really up to. If he glances at you more than often while you are engrossed talking with someone or busy in work then it is a good sign that he really is into you.

5. Also it is important to check out whether he only wants to meet you at nights or he is interested in seeing you at other times as well. This will tell you if he is really interested in keeping a serious relationship with you or if he just wants to make love with you for as long as he can.

6. Last but not the least, it is very important for you to know that whatever the circumstances are you deserve a call from him. If he keeps ignoring your calls and at the end of the day keeps the phone early saying that he is tired and that he is always busy then you can surely figure it out for yourself that he is just not that into you. This is because no one can be too busy to make a call if he really wants to talk.

How to know if you Love someone :)

Most people have this feeling inside them but are not sure whether it is simple affection, a crush or maybe love. Well love is a lot more stronger word than simple affection and attraction towards someone. Love involves much more than what you find in simple attraction towards someone. Read on to find out some of the simple yet powerful ways to find out whether you love someone or not.

You’re happy when your partner is? - If you feel joy when your partner is happy and just a mere smile or his/her face gives you happiness than you are definitely in love with that person. Love is all about feeling one with your partner therefore you tend to enjoy all joys, lovely moments, moments of satisfaction with your partner.

You don't mind public affection? - Do you often hold hands in public - maybe kiss or hug? If this is the case than you might be in love with your partner. Normally most couples don't prefer showing much public affection until and unless they are in love.

Caring like family- Do you care for your partner just as you care for your family? And get sad when your partner is sad or maybe get happy when you partner is? Love is all about caring and sharing. And if you treat your partner just like you treat your family than you are definitely in love.

You feel like being an open book- When you love someone you feel like being an open book and tend to share some of your biggest secret which you would never even share with your closest of friends. Love makes you surrender totally and you feel like pouring your heart out.

You talk without getting bored - Mostly when it's just a mere crush or attraction you would easily get bored after a while. Everything would just seem boring and you would not feel like carrying on any more. But when you are in love you would always have something to talk about, it would never get boring no matter how long and how much you talk.

You would sacrifice- This is the best way to find out whether you are in love or not. If you are ready to sacrifice something for your partners comfort then you are definitely in love. Love is all about sacrifices and compromises and if you are truly in love you would not mind being committed and making sacrifices for the one you love.

What makes you a Good Boyfriend :)

You make your girlfriend feel special. By making her feel good about herself, you're also helping her build more confidence. It's important to make your girlfriend feel loved and cared for everyday. It's an emotional bond that will keep your relationship stronger.

You make your girlfriend trust you. Trust is very vital in any relationship. A paranoid girlfriend who checks on you every two seconds may mean one thing: you're not assuring her that you're a reliable dude who has his eyes fixed on her and her alone. If she's annoying you, take time to examine yourself as well and maybe you're just not hitting the right target. Women want to be reassured of your love from time to time.

You make your girlfriend feel beautiful and sexy. Girls extra time to prep up and it sure can get to our nerves but it's always worth it. Take time to appreciate her efforts, whisper in her ear how beautiful and sexy she is and she'll be totally feeling giddy and great inside.

You make your girlfriend want to be with you all the time. Sometimes, a good boyfriend doesn't have to try. This isn't saying you have to demand your girlfriend to be with you 24/7. Work for it. Take care of yourself and make time to do your usual hobbies and interested. This will make your girlfriend realize what an independent boyfriend you are and that alone is enough to encourage them to be in your presence.

You make your girlfriend laugh. Nothing beats a guy with sense of humor. They always win the best girls over. Making your girl laugh is a ways to make her feel comfortable and happy. It's always inspiring to be in a relationship when both of you contribute in making each other appreciate the little things in life. Deliver a joke or playfully tease her whenever you get the chance.

You make your girlfriend share her problems. Your girlfriend will start to value your suggestions and opinions so she'll start to confide in you more. Making your girl call for you on times she's feeling down will assure her you'll be there during the bad times as well.

You make your girlfriend try new things. Being in relationship means you've decided to share your life with another. It will take some time to grow and become stronger. When you learn how to inspire and motivate your girlfriend, she will be more interested in trying out new things, thus, making her grow as well. She will thank you and love you more when she discovers that love can, still and always will be, make you fearless and can do anything!

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